In The Workplace, Men And Women Have Different Identities And Different Weapons Of Survival.

Men's weapons

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In an office, unless you are a lawless boss, you have to learn the gentleness of a girl.

There are many meanings of gentleness. For example, the gentleness of your tone should be relaxed, soft, and not too loud. Even when you are angry, remember to smile first; when you walk, don't be bold and slow, let others feel that you are not impatient; facing the opposite sex, you should have a considerate element.

At least 90% of women will appreciate the gentleness of a man, and they will get a sense of security for you.

The use of gentleness should be appropriate. After using it, the woman will be in a feminine mood, and the opposite sex will be added. What is more, it will give the opposite sex the wrong hint: he falls in love with me?

Second is the heart.

You need to remember the tasks you gave to your superiors yesterday, remember what your colleagues do for you, remember the birthdays of your colleagues (especially female colleagues) and the foods they like, remember when your colleagues will add classes, and remember when they became your colleagues.

Be careful not to show up on your mouth. It will make people think you are chattering. You just need to record silently and show it silently at the right time.

The third is careful.

The more careful you work, the more you can help other colleagues reduce their burdens, and the more perfect your task is.

Leading colleagues can't pick out your fault. Can they dislike you?

The fourth is decisive.

A decisive man is different from an arbitrary man. He assert that you do not listen to others' opinions, and that you can be brave enough to take responsibility and have the ability to deal with problems in time. It also shows that you are a good material for leadership.

The fifth is initiative.

A man who takes the initiative and works on his own initiative has always been a good man in the eyes of women, and has always been a good worker in the leadership's eyes.

Sixth, honesty.

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Men are not many, because men are good at betting and boasting, and when they bet and brag, honesty is not worth believing.

If you want your colleagues to like you, you'd better be a good man first.

The seventh is generosity and magnanimity.

Never mind the occasional treat, never mind who once swore at you three years ago.

People who do not care about money and tolerance are very easy to arouse the interest of their colleagues. They will feel that they are not tired, dependable and relaxed with you. They will not feel rigid or worldly.

Women's weapons

The first is beauty.

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Hair, cosmetics...

When all the useful guys are complete, which woman will not let men be dumbfounded? Beautiful, regardless of age, every stage of the women have their beautiful place, know their beauty, learn to use their own beauty, the world will be invincible, and go all the way - who likes the slovenly yellow faced woman?

The second is concern.

Women's concern is one of the most touching things in the world, not to mention that she comes from her mother, wife, lover or colleague.

Your softly caring words can sometimes be remembered by people you care about, believe it or not!

The third is calm.

Women are naturally not calm creatures.

Next time you want to scream again, you immediately give yourself a slap in the face, and you get used to your memory, and the longer it takes, the calmness comes naturally.

At that time, even if you are too scared to breathe, others will only be more like you walking around. You admire your courage and feel that you are a different leader.

The fourth is quiet.

You must be like a fake kid who is throwing a door and hitting a table all day in the office. Who can rest assured that something is to be given to you? Of course, you can't be like a boring woman in the old society.

The fifth is orthodoxy.

It doesn't matter how much you love to laugh, but you have to be an orthodox woman who doesn't judge you. In the eyes of everyone, the educated women are not frivolous. They will not let the office become the wind and moon field. Everyone knows that you will behave regularly and do not worry about bringing the young people out of office.

The sixth is self-confidence.

You should know that the office is not a man's world. You should also know that your rights are equal to those of your male colleagues. You should know your abilities better than anyone else. So you can see everything and everyone with confidence.

Seventh is health.

Now, who likes the sick beauty like Lin Daiyu? Besides, you are suffering from pain all the time at work, and others feel uncomfortable. Do you not embarrass yourself? In fact, there is a most beautiful weapon in common. That is: happiness! The meaning of happiness needs not be said more, because you know that happiness is the foundation for all your career.